When someone screws up and you forgive them time and time again, it only pushes them to believe that they can get away with almost everything. Each time, forgiveness becomes less and less appreciated. I’m convinced that forgiveness is one of the most important things in the world, it liberates you from all grudges and helps create better relationships with people you may not want to get rid of. Don’t allow them to think they can hurt you constantly and be able to avoid confrontation. Always confront someone when something is wrong but in a polite and understanding manner, it makes a difference, foreal. No one’s going to want to cooperate and listen to your ass when you’re angry before even speaking. It’s hard to swallow your pride but it’s harder to lose a friend or hold a grudge. Everyone deserves a chance to be listened to and forgiven. But when people take such a precious gift as forgiveness and is left unchanged, forgive and forget. Don’t hold a grudge and choose to be civil man. Just forgive them then forget them.
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